Tuesday, December 4, 2007
Simple Part 3, Obey
INTRODUCTION
The church often mistakes Christian obedience as the first step in the Christian life. As a result, for many people the Christian faith becomes a rule-based religion. Instead, the Scriptures reveal that Jesus' initial invitation is to follow him. He invites us to follow him until we begin believing that he is indeed who he says he is. This belief that God loves us and has the best in store for us, then, becomes the reason we obey.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
What crazy/outrageous acts have you done to express your love for another person?
Which step has been the hardest for you to take: following, believing, or obeying? Why?
Of all the Christian commandments that you have heard, which ones have been the hardest for you to apply in your life?
Read Matthew 7:24-28. What does it mean to have a foundation built on rock? What does it mean to have a foundation built on sand?
When you read this passage, do you hear the parable as a source of comfort, as a warning sign, as an explanation of why life seems out-of-sync, or as some combination of all three?
At the end of the day, it comes down to answering the question: "Who are you going to trust?" Do you trust that Jesus really knows what is best for us, or do you prefer to do things your own way?
THINK ABOUT IT
Has there ever been a time when you regretted obeying Jesus? Has there ever been a time when you regretted disobeying Jesus?
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
We can attend church and experience great music and informative sermons, but these things are not life changing. Obedience to Christ makes all the practical difference in the outcome of our lives. What areas of your life do you need to surrender in obedience to Christ?
CHANGING YOUR MIND
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
NO MEETING THIS THURSDAY
WE ARE TRYING FOR NEXT THURSDAY.
CO
Monday, November 5, 2007
Thursday's Topic
INTRODUCTION
Jesus' initial invitation to his disciples was a simple one: Follow me. He invited them to watch and listen to his interactions with his heavenly Father and with others. In time, however, those who followed Jesus began to discover God's character through Jesus Christ. And in that discovery they found themselves drawn to take a second simple step: Believe. DISCUSSION
QUESTIONS
1.) Think about all the advertisements you get for "free offers". Have you ever actually received anything for "free"? What hidden catches/costs have accompanied the free offers you've pursued?
2.) Read Romans 3:21-26. In your words, define "righteousness" (v.22)? What comes to mind about the word "glory" (v.23)?
3.) Do you agree that nobody is perfect? How does that shape your idea of what it means to have fallen short of God's standard?
4.) What attempts have you made in your life to reach God's standard of living? Have those attempts assured you of God's recognition or are you still trying to earn God's favor?
5.) What is unique about God's invitation to be in relationship with Him that is different from other types of invitations that we receive?
6.) Attaining a right standing with God is available from God through Christ to all who believe in Jesus - the person. Do you believe who Jesus says he is and what he has done for you?
THINK ABOUT IT
When this message captivates the human heart it impacts our behavior. Forgiven people find it easier to forgive. Loved people find it easier to love. Accepted people find it easier to accept. Sinners who've been forgiven of sin find it easier to abandon their sin.
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
Have you ever said yes to God and accepted his gift of a right standing with him? Consider praying a prayer that transfers your trust out of your hands and places it into Christ's hands. And if you've already done so, is there anyone in your life with whom you can share this message?
CHANGING YOUR MIND
There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:22-24
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Simple Part 1 - FOLLOW
INTRODUCTION:
There is a common misconception that the church is a gathering place for saintly, perfect people. Moreover, some think that being a Christian means observing a set of rules or commandments. The reality is that the Christian life is about a relationship with Jesus Christ. And at the heart of that relationship is an invitation that Jesus extends to people from all experiences of life: "Follow me."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
1.) Read Matthew 9:9-13. What did the general public think of tax collectors like Matthew?
2.) How have certain experiences in your life prevented you from developing relationships with other people? Can you imagine anything that might disqualify you from having a relationship with God?
3.) n this passage, Jesus seems to be comfortable in the company of tax collectors and sinners, while the Pharisees express considerable outrage. What standards did Jesus have for choosing his relationships?
4.) What does it mean to be "healthy" and "sick" as described in verse 12? Would you describe yourself as healthy or sick?
5.) How does following Jesus make you less critical and more gracious towards others?
6.) Are you willing to follow Jesus? What does it look like to follow Jesus in your life?
THINK ABOUT IT:
Jesus extends his invitation to people who know something is wrong but aren't sure what to do about it. He invites people who know they are not all they ought to be. He didn't ask Matthew to clean up his act before following him; and Jesus doesn't ask that of us. In time, within the context of his relationship with Jesus, Matthew would experience incredible life transformation. But Jesus' initial request and his request from there on out is simply, "Follow me." Will you follow Jesus Christ?
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
Begin tomorrow morning with this prayer, "Lord, today I want to follow you."
CHANGING YOUR MIND:
As Jesus went on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax collector's booth. "Follow me," he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him. Matthew 9:9
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Are you Available?
What kind of person does God use? As you read through the Bible it becomes clear that God doesn't usually use the smartest or the most sophisticated person. He doesn't often use someone who has all the answers or who knows what he is doing. In fact, when I read the Bible and see the people God used I can’t help help but think, how does God get anything done? But as we examine the story of Moses it will become clear the one characteristic that God does use, and how He can leverage this quality in you. When you think about the people God used, they have one very important commonality with us…they raised their hand one day and said, “I’m available.” I’m not necessarily capable, trained or sure things are going to go well, but if there is a gap, put me in coach as long as you are coming with me.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Read Exodus 3:1-11. Why do people tend to think that God can't use them? What are the excuses they give for not making themselves available?
God says He has seen the plight of his people. Well, it’s been 400 years. God is always late from our perspective and on time from his. (Like how our kids think we are late all the time.) Moses must be thinking, this is very encouraging, why are you telling me this? What does this have to do with me? Then God says GO. “Wait God, let’s go back to verse 8. I heard you tell me you were going to go, which is awesome, so I think you should go.”
2. Read Exodus 3:12-14. What does God give to those who make themselves available (i.e. "I will be with you," v. 12)?
3. When have you felt God use you?
4. How have you felt God use this COMMUNITY in your life? How have you seen God use this COMMUNITY in the lives of others?
5. What does it take (time, talents and resources) to make these aspects of COMMUNITY happen?
6. In what volunteer capacity do you plan to make yourself available for God to use this coming year?
THINK ABOUT IT
What are the consequences of saying no…not being available? Think about all that Moses would have missed out on?
Imagine a year from now…what impact will we have made on our community or church? What things are you imagining? What will it take to make this happen? Make a list of the results that you expect to see a year from now in both your life and in the lives of others. How will things be different?
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
Seriously consider your level of involvement and investment into the community. If you are too busy to be involved, you’re too busy. You have to be available!
CHANGING YOUR MIND
And God said, "I will be with you. And this will be the sign to you that it is I who have sent you: When you have brought the people out of Egypt, you will worship God on this mountain. " Exodus 3:12
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
No Meeting this Week!
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
INTRODUCTION
Somewhere along the way you will be presented with an opportunity to jump ahead, to take a shortcut, to move closer to that goal you are chasing. And the only catch is that you will have to temporarily abandon your values. So what will you do? It turns out that Jesus was made just such an offer in His third temptation. Examining His response will prepare you for your moment of truth.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1.) Name some people in our culture who have taken unethical shortcuts in order to get what they wanted quicker. What were the results of their decisions?
2.) Read Matthew 4:8-9. What is it about shortcuts that make them so tempting that the devil though he could tempt Jesus with a shortcut?
3.) Read Deuteronomy 6:10-13. What does your response to the temptation to take shortcuts say about in whom you put your trust?
4.) Read Matthew 4:10-11. What did Jesus gain when he chose unbroken fellowship with the Father over instant authority over the kingdoms of the earth (cf. Matthew 28:18)?
5.) What do you stand to lose when you take a shortcut?
6.) Have you ever been faced with an opportunity to jump ahead, but it required you to temporarily abandon your values? What was your response? What were the results?
7.) What do you currently want to get so badly that you are set up to temporarily turn your back on God?
8.) In this area, how can you remind yourself to choose what is important over what is immediate?
THINK ABOUT IT
When you take a shortcut you miss out on an opportunity to experience God?s intervention on your behalf. In the area where you could see yourself being tempted to take a shortcut, how could God intervene to give you the results you want, without compromising your intimacy with Him? WHAT WILL YOU DO?When faced with the temptation to take a shortcut commit to pause...and say the following, "Temptation, you're not going to steal my future. You're not going to steal my family. You're not going to steal my faith."
CHANGING YOUR MIND
Jesus said to him, "Away from me, Satan! For it is written: 'Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.'" Matthew 4:10
Friday, September 14, 2007
Darrin Clock Fund
I have been in regular contact with him regarding his and his daughter's battle with Cancer. As you know, Katee's surgery went well and now she is undergoing Chemotherapy treatment along with Darrin.
It is hard to imagine having to fight your own terminal illness, but having it compounded by news that your daughter has cancer as well…it is almost unimaginable. We are however encouraged to hear news of progress in both of their treatments. Just weeks ago, Doctors gave Darrin little chance of survival past 6 months, but Darrin never stopped hoping. He notified me today that there was even a small shrinkage of the cancer when he visited his Oncologist yesterday. The Doctors are absolutely baffled! Praise the Lord and the glory be to Him!
So many of you have asked what can be done to help. Frankly, there is a financial need. With ongoing medical treatment there is mounting medical bills and a great deal of missed work. Even the most prepared person can find themselves in a situation where they need help financially because of circumstances way beyond their control. This is one of those times…
Imagine for a moment that you need to get several (highly priced) prescriptions filled per week. Now multiply it by two. Now factor in the fact that you need to miss one day per week because of Chemotherapy. This doesn't include the time you may miss because you feel so sick you can't work the following day. Bottom line is; it compounds and it is expensive.
Darrin has never asked for money, but I know it is rapidly becoming a concern. If you are able to help, I am asking for your support on Darrin's behalf. As Doug has said, we need to pray like it was us that were sick and I think we need to give that way as well. If it is in your heart to help, on Sunday, please put in the offering under benevolence "Darrin Clock" in addition to your regular tithe/offering and we will make sure it gets directly to him. There is a fund that has been established at Castle Rock Bank with full disclosure for contributors. It is important to Darrin that people can see where the money is going.
Thanks fellas! Talk to you soon!
Charles
Ps - if you would like to know more of the Clock family, please visit: www.darrinsday.com
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Pause Part III - Proving Ground
PAUSE Part III – Proving Ground
INTRODUCTION
Every day people fall into the temptation of presuming on God. You see it in the young couple that spends irresponsibly and then asks God to bail them out financially for example. But what's wrong with that? Hasn't God promised to take care of us? In this session we'll discuss the second of Jesus' three temptations in the desert and what it teaches us about presuming on God. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
When in your life have you had an idea, launched that idea, and then expected God to bail you out? What were the results?
Read Matthew 4:5-6. What was behind the devil's request? Why would it have been a sin for Jesus to throw himself down from the top of the temple?
Read Psalm 91:11-12. In these verses God promised to protect His Messiah. How can a promise be turned into presumption?
Read Exodus 17:1-7, the story of Israel at Massah referenced in Deut 6:16. How did the Israelites put God to the test? How did they try to manipulate God?
Read Deuteronomy 6:16. When do you find yourself breaking this prohibition by presuming on God?
Read Matthew 4:7. What do we learn from Jesus' response?
When do you find yourself trying to get God to adopt your agenda?
What do you miss out on when you continue to try and manipulate God?
How can you begin to stop trying to manipulate God and start cooperating with Him?
THINK ABOUT IT
This week evaluate your prayers, your excuses, your explanations, your decisions, through the lens of Are you cooperating with God, or are you trying to manipulate Him? Is your attitude more like "If I jump, He'll catch me," or "I'm here to cooperate, not manipulate"?
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
At the beginning of each day this week, pause...and say Matthew 4:7 to yourself. Surrender to God's will and choose to cooperate, not manipulate. CHANGING YOUR MINDJesus answered him, "It is also written: 'Do not put the Lord your God to the test.'" Matthew 4:7
Saturday, September 1, 2007
GRACE!


What a Morning!
We have a God who not only invited us to call Him Creator, but Heavenly Father. While we were at the 'summit', it was easy to see that we have an awesome God that is an incredible creator. We could see practically more than a hundred miles in every direction. The beauty and majesty of His creation is breathtaking. But what makes me even more at awe is that God not only invited us to call Him The Creator, but Heavenly Father. He wants a personal relationship with us - now that is exciting!
This really struck me as I was talking to the other JounneyMEN. I thought to myself, "It's all about relationships".
I could be climbing this rock myself, and it may be okay. But what if I slip? I don't think I could have or would have wanted to go any higher if Matt weren't standing in the spot that was a little scary - but I trusted him and I kept moving ahead...

Isn't this similar to our faith? When it is strong, we move - we climb with confidence! Just knowing He is there, we are able to trust and feel more safe. As a leader, you feel more confident because He is there at the scary places on the 'mountain' for your people. God is the ultimate Fire Fighter! He is the ultimate encourager. On the other side, what if our faith is weak? We hesitate, we become paralyzed with fear and uncertainly. God does NOT want this for us!
Wow! God wants me to call Him Father. He wants relationship just as He built us for relationship with one another. He is there for me. Helping me along the climb. Now that is amazing!

On top of The Rock, we prayed (together) for the community - specifically the men, the families, the businesses and all of the churches. We focused outward, symbolically and vowed to remember that we will continue to look outward as this is what God told us to do.
We concluded by joining hands and reciting the prayer Jesus taught his disciples, The Lord's Prayer before descending down again.
What a way to start the morning. Knowing that the hills I climb, I don't have to climb alone. Our Heavenly Father is there and so are the JourneyMEN...
Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Tomorrow (Thursday) we will be hiking Castle Rock. Once at the 'summit', we will pause to pray with each other, for one another and for the community. It is going to be a great time and I am looking forward to seeing you all there.
We will meet at Rock Park at 6:15 and start up the hill shortly after that.
Please call me or write if you have any questions. cell: 720-384-7511
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Pause, Part II - Soul Provider
INTRODUCTION
It is tempting to feel that God is in no hurry to take care of your needs--like the direction your marriage is headed, the speed at which your career/business is advancing. Jesus too was tempted to take things in His own hands and His response reveals a lot about what is really at stake when we are tempted to act independently of God.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS – Consider; Marriage (family), Health, Finances, Career, Faith
Has there been something that you waited for a long time? How did it feel to have to wait?
Read Matthew 4:1-4. What was behind the devil's request? Why would it have been a sin for Jesus to turn the rocks into bread?
Read Deuteronomy 8:1-3. What did God intend to teach the Israelites when He provided manna for them in the wilderness?
When in your life have you met a legitimate need in an improper way? What were the results?
Why is it difficult to wait on God to provide, instead of taking things into your own hands?
Have you ever had a need that you were tempted to take into your own hands, but instead you chose to wait on God? How did God provide?
In what area of your life do you face the most temptation to meet a legitimate need in an irresponsible way?
Read Deuteronomy 8:10-18. Why is it more tempting to act independently of God when times are good? How can you continue to remind yourself of your dependence on God?
THINK ABOUT IT
Jesus met his temptation by quoting Deuteronomy 6:3. Choose a verse you can memorize this week that is specific to your temptation.WHAT WILL YOU DO?When you are tempted this week to meet a legitimate need in an irresponsible way, pause...and say Deuteronomy 6:3 to yourself, or a verse specific to your temptation.
CHANGING YOUR MIND
Jesus answered, "It is written: 'Man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.'" Matthew 4:4
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
E-mail from Kim Clock
Just got off the phone with Darrin - he is great spirits right now. He is recieving his Chemo treatment and will be for the next 5 hours or so. He wanted me to post this email to communicat ethe great news regarding Katee.
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Good morning all,
Katee's surg. went great. The cancer had not settled in the rectum as thought by the scans. they had to take part of the rectum to get clear margins, however the doc says she is cancer free as of now. We are so very relieved since this means no radiation. God is wonderful, isn't he!!!!!!!!
Today is the first day of the journey to recovery. She is in great spirits and so thankful to be done . They think her hospital stay will be around a week. We want to thank you all for your never ending prayers. We have been so blessed by all your support and encouragement. I'm on my way to the hospital now so I'll write later. By the way Katee and Darrin are getting a web sight, I'll let you know the address asap. Once again thank you, and have a great day!!!!
Kim
Monday, August 13, 2007
Good news regarding Katee Clock
They were concerned about a multitude of things before going in, however at this point the prognosis sounds very positive!!!
I will update you as news comes in. Praise the Lord!
-charles
p.s. Darrin begins his Chemo treatment in the morning at Skyridge at 9:00 am.
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Pause, Part 1
INTRODUCTION:
Have you ever wondered why it is so hard to turn away from temptation? What is it that leads you to keep making the same poor choices? Could it be that the reason you find temptation so, well, tempting is that you've never paused to think about what is at stake? In this session we will discuss what really hangs in the balance when you are faced with temptation.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
Read Matthew 3:16-4:1. What was at stake when Jesus was tempted?
1.) Why do we tend to minimize what is at stake when we are tempted?
2.) Share an example of a time in your life when your response to temptation impacted your future?
3.) How have you seen an individuals poor choices impact the lives of others?
4.) How does temptation affect your faith?
5.) How does it help to keep the consequences in mind when you are faced with temptation?
THINK ABOUT IT:
There is always more at stake than we think. If you're young, you have a lot of future at stake. If you are old, you have a lot of legacy at stake. If you are in between, you have both a future and a legacy at stake. When you are tempted, what is on the line? WHAT WILL YOU DO?When faced with temptation this week, commit to pause and say the following, "Temptation, you're not going to steal my future. You're not going to steal my family. You're not going to steal my faith."
CHANGING YOUR MIND:
For sin shall not be your master, because you are not under law, but under grace. Romans 6:14
Sunday, August 5, 2007
Deo Valente, D.V.
Do we do that? Do we try to build things without THE GREAT ARCHITECT? God has a plan drawn out for our lives and we need to look at it. There it is, right in front of us...The Word, the Bible. Wow! How exciting!!
This week, let's integrate God into our lives and our plans. See you all Thursday!
Charles
D.V.
Thursday, August 2, 2007
Update on Darrin
I wish I had better news to report. As most of you know by now, Darrin did not receive good news in Rochester at the Mayo clinic. Essentially, there was much more cancer than they anticipated and informed Darrin and Kim that it was too risky to try to perform the surgery. They are seeking a 3rd opinion here in Colorado.
Yesterday, Darrin's oldest daughter (20), Katie had a Colonoscapy performed and the results strongly indicated (90%) that it is Cancer. As you can imagine, this has rocked their worlds in a way that is hard to even fathom.
Regardless of what the Doctors say and regardless of what the prognosis is; we, as followers of Christ believe anything is possible through Him. Both Doug and I spoke to Darrin this morning and they are under an unbelievable amount of stress. He has not asked for anything except for prayer. With that being said, I think we need to be ready to do whatever is needed for the Clock family. Darrin will likely be joining us next week at JourneyMEN meeting and we need to be ready to encourage him and pray for him and his entire family.
He wanted me to make sure everyone is in the loop and aware of what is happening.
-charles
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Way to go, Pat!
He wanted me to tell you guys, 'Thanks' for the prayers. Have an awesome week!!
Charles
Monday, July 30, 2007
Hungry for more?
- For whom the book was written (the Jewish people).
- The patrilinial versus matrelinial bloodlines of Jesus (Matthew & Luke).
- The importance of the gifts of the wise men.
- The importance of John's preaching.
- The beginning of the ministry of Jesus.
- The fulfillment of Old Testament prophecy.
Hope to see you then!
-Charles
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER
INTRODUCTION: We have spent the last couple of sessions discussing The Principle of the Path. Thursday will conclude the 'Series'.
Direction Determines Destination. But what is it that influences direction? What is it that starts us on our course, either for the places we want to go or the destinations we'd rather avoid? If we could determine what this is, then we could change our course upstream and save ourselves a lot of time, money, and heartache. Discover what this is and how you leverage it to reach the destinations God desires for you.
1. Read Deuteronomy 7:12. Why did God command the Israelites to pay attention? How do the things that grab your attention influence the direction you take in life?
2. Read Psalm 119:35-37. What are the worthless things that we need to turn our eyes and our attention away from? What are the things that capture your attention that will only lead you down paths you don't want to go?
3. Read Proverbs 4:25-27. In what situations are you the most tempted to swerve to the left or the right? How can you be proactive and keep you eyes straight ahead? How can you avoid the temptation to turn your attention away from the things that will draw you off course?
4. Read Matthew 6:22. What are the things that you need to focus on? What are the things that by turning your eyes to them, by paying attention to them, your life will be full of light?
5. Read Hebrews 2:1. When have you turned your eyes away from what was important and found yourself drifting away? How can we keep focused on the things that will keep us on the right paths? How can we keep from drifting?
THINK ABOUT IT
What has captured your attention that could prove harmful down the road? What would your friend, roommate, or family say is taking up too much of your focus? WHAT WILL YOU DO?
What do you need to give more attention? What are the things you need to focus on? What will you do this week to begin to pay more attention to them?
CHANGING YOUR MIND
Let your eyes look straight ahead, fix your gaze directly before you. Proverbs 4:25Do not swerve to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil. Proverbs 4:27
Monday, July 23, 2007
Crazy few days
What a whirl-wind the past few days. I have been traveling for the last 6 days and am thrilled to be back home. Farah and I were in Annandale, MN yesterday to attend Gary Partridges final service at the the Church he has been serving at for the past 15 years! It was an honor and a privilege to be a part of the day's tribute. What a fantastic day!
For those who do not know, Gary will be joining us here in Colorado in the next month or so at Plum Creek Community Church as a Pastor and also as a JounreyMEN. I am so excited to have Gary because he is very well versed in scripture and is excellent at articulating and communicating the Word in a way that is practical and applicable. The other thing I like about Gary is his sense of humor. He is going to make a great fit with our church, group and community. I just wanted to be among the first to say, "Welcome to the team"to Gary! -co
Monday, July 16, 2007
Newest JourneyMAN
I am proud to call Darrin a fellow JourneyMAN. I am calling upon this group to pray for Darrin this week as he travels to Rochester, New York to see if they can perform surgery. Anything is possible through Him and when we pray in the name of Jesus Christ. Please see the what Christian Pruett wrote in his email to me (us) yesterday...
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Charles: It was great to have the chance to meet and pray with Darrin today. I have not met many people who have gone through as much as he has, and I continue to pray that God will watch over him and his family. As he mentioned to us, he is looking for people to "lift his arms" much like Aaron and Hur did for Moses while the Israelites fought Amalek. He will be traveling next week to go to the Mayo clinic, and he will need as much uplifting as possible. In that same vein, I would like to propose to the men of our church (and everyone else who is willing to hear) that while he travels and has tests done on Tuesday, we devote the day to prayer and fasting for him. As Christians, while we pray for people, we are also called to fast (Matthew 6:16). The Bible is clear about the times when fasting are important. Moses fasted for 40 days on the mountain. The Ninevites fasted after Jonah warned them of their impending destruction. Jesus fasted for 40 days before he began his ministry. When the Apostles came across a boy in Mark 9 who had a spirit that caused epileptic symptoms, Jesus said that, "This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting." With Darrin's current medical conditions, I know that he is unable to do much at all physically. In his stead, and in dutiful obedience to our God, I want to call upon us who are capable to fast all day on Tuesday for his sake. If some of us cannot fast from food for medical reasons, I would ask that they fast from some activity or convenience. His life is worth far more than anything we could give up for the day. I pray that God will work a miracle in his life.-- Christian Pruett
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Looking Ahead...
We looked closely at Proverbs 27:12; The prudent (smart) see danger and take refuge, but the simple (not-smart) keep going and suffer.
Remembering that the Direction Determines Destination, it is important that we are on the lookout for trouble (danger/evil). Furthermore, when we see it we need to take action. We discussed the four dynamics that go into this...
- ACTION - Do something about it!
- SACRIFICE/PAIN - Perhaps giving up something
- EMBARRASSMENT - Sometimes we look foolish in the eyes of others when we make a decision now for something better down the road or in the grand scheme of things.
- RELIEF - Being able to look back and see the moment you made a change to better your life and have a sigh of relief.
Apply the Principle of The Path to these 4 areas...
- Health
- Finances
- Relationships
- Faith
Look forward to some excellent discussion about this and thanks again for the great feedback!
-co
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Looking Ahead - Topic for tomorrow
The Principle of the Path: Direction Determines Destination
INTRODUCTION:
We've all ended up places we never meant to be--where life was complicated and there were seemingly no good options. And looking back we saw the warning signs. We just chose to ignore them. But it doesn't have to be that way. By looking back at an old wisdom saying we'll learn to look ahead and avoid the danger the lies in wait for us down the road.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
1.) What are the reasons that people avoid warning signs? Why is it that we sometimes walk right into trouble?
2.) Read Proverbs 27:12. When have you seen someone look ahead and take the steps necessary to avoid impending danger? When have you seen someone walk right into trouble?
3.) Taking refuge and responding to danger before it happens involves action. What are some things that you might have to do in order to avoid danger?
4.) Taking refuge often involves sacrifice. What are some things you might have to sacrifice in the short term in order to steer away from complicated situations up ahead?
5.) Responding to danger before it happens can often be embarrassing because others won't understand your actions. What is a situation in which it might be embarrassing to take steps to avoid potential trouble?
6.) The payoff for doing something, for sacrificing, and for facing potential embarrassment, is the feeling of relief once the potential danger has been diffused. When have you felt the relief that comes when you look ahead and do what is necessary to avoid danger?
THINK ABOUT IT:
Where in your life do you presently see danger ahead?
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
What will you do this week to avoid the impending danger?
CHANGING YOUR MIND:
The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it. Proverbs 27:12
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Summertime!
Can you believe it is July 5th?? As my Dad always said, "we are on the backside of the year now". Wow - That is hard to believe. With the summer months, it can become chaotic and busy with activities, travel and long days. This is a great time of year to review what has happened, what has been accomplished and furthermore, evaluate what needs to be done moving forward for the 2nd half of 2007.
Remember those New Years resolutions? Uh oh! The day after a fun, food and drink filled 4th of July I think of those health resolutions :)
2 things to consider here...
#1 - If you have accomplished some of your goals - congratulations! Take a moment to celebrate the victory! One on particular that I have witnessed is Joe Davis, my friend, neighbor and fellow JourneyMan. He made a DECISION on New Years Eve to get fit. Not only did he have some goals in mind - HE CHANGED HIS PATH. Joe has lost 60 LBS (so far)!!! He looks great and feels awesome too. Janet, his wife looks incredible too. Way to go, Joe and Janet!
#2 - If you have fallen short on a goal(s) - don't give up!! It is okay if you recognize it now and CHANGE the DIRECTION. Remember, DIRECTION DETERMINES DESTINATION!
Whether it is health, financial or relationships, apply the principle of the path.
We have 6 months left in 2007. Is that not enough time?? Look what Joe Davis accomplished in 6 months...
See you guys next Thursday.
charles
Monday, June 25, 2007
Choosing the Path
Great discussion the other morning! Just wanted to check in and see how things were going with regard to what we were all challenged with last week. How is it going? Some of the things we talked about ranged from relationships with our wives to health decisions to finances.
Remember, DIRECTION DETERMINES DESTINATION. Are you headed in the right direction?
Have a great day!
co
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
The Principle of the Path
THE PATH PRINCIPLE
INTRODUCTION
Think about the last time you were traveling and got lost. You had your destination in mind. You had every intention of getting there. But you took the wrong path, and you didn't end up where you wanted to be. A disconnect often occurs between the path you choose and where you want to end up. This is the principle of the path and we'll discover how it impacts every area of your life.
DIRECTION NOT INTENTION determines DESTINATION
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1.) Talk about a time when you were lost. How did you get lost? How did you find your bearings?
2.) Read Proverbs 7:6-27. When have you watched someone else go down a predictable path? What were the choices that they made? What were the outcomes that they experienced?
3.) The principle of the path teaches that direction determines destination. What are some of the paths that you have taken in life? Where did they lead you?
4.) What is your desired destination when it comes to your career, finances, marriage, kids, or relationships?
5.) What path are you on now when it comes to your career, finances, kids, or relationships? Where do you see it headed? How is it different than your desired destination?
6.) What path should you pursue so that you will arrive at your desired destination in one of the areas you've mentioned?
THINK ABOUT IT
Why do we tend to think that we are the exception to the path principle? Why do we see our choices as individual events, instead of seeing them as a path to a destination?
WHAT WILL YOU DO?
Wrong paths have an emotional appeal that cause us to trade the immediate for the ultimate. If we choose immediate gratification, then we forfeit where we eventually want to be. What is one thing you will do this week to place yourself on the path to what you ultimately want?
CHANGING YOUR MIND
Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. Proverbs 7:25
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Meeting this Thursday
We are meting at The Grange this Thursday at 6:30 am. See you then!
co
Saturday, June 16, 2007
Experiencing Trials of MANY Kinds...
It is titled, "Confessions of a Stay at Home Mom"
So... this morning after feeding Ainsley at 5:00 (for the first time all night) I crawled back into bed. Minimunch didn't go back to sleep, although she was happily squawking in her crib for about an hour. I am a pretty light sleeper, so I didn't really fall back asleep. By about 6:00am, she was letting out some bored cries. So I got her up, changed her diaper again, and took her downstairs. She was back asleep by 6:15... about the time Mike was leaving for his Bible Study. How great is that that my husband wakes up super early to study God's word? Anyway, the garage door woke up Aubrey. She was also happily awake, so I let her be until 7:00am hoping she too would fall back asleep. She didn't. So I got her up, and made her breakfast. By this time Ainsley was awake and wanting to eat... and here it is... I actually thought to myself I hate my life! How ridiculous is that! I have an amazing husband who puts his family first. I have two terrific daughters who fill my heart each and every day. I live everyday with the knowledge that I am free from my sins through Christ's blameless death on the cross. Isn't that a relief? I have amazing people to support me and walk life with me. And here I was thinking my life was horrible because I had to wake up at 5am! I immediately prayed for a better perspective. Sheesh. The funny part is, there is nothing I would rather do with my life. Whenever I have been asked the question "if you could do anything with your life, and pay wasn't a factor, what would you choose?" I've always said a wife and a mother. Well, at one point it was to follow the migration of whales, but that was a long time ago. So there you have it. The selfish confession of a stay at home mom... who by the way very much loves her life!
Sometimes it just requires us to sit back at get a little perspective on our situation. Though I know this is a post from a girl on the JourneyMEN site, I hope you will forgive me and be able to relate your own life to a stay at home mom's. I'm proud of my wife!
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Application of Faith
At Plum Creek Community Church this weekend, Pastor Doug delivered a message on "Applied Faith". In other words, taking what we learn on Sundays (and on Thursdays) and applying it to our everyday lives. It inspired me to really dive into the book of James a little deeper.
Something that struck me was how the words we speak can be so important and perhaps even dangerous. James 1:19-20 My dear brothers and sisters, be quick to LISTEN, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. 20 Your anger can never make things right in God's sight.
This week I am going to focus my words on encouragement and be slower to 'React' and more careful to "Respond'. I am also going to be try to be more mindful and aware of the actual words I speak as it reflects who I am and what I stand for.
Have an awesome week!
co
Thursday, June 7, 2007
Daily Bread!
We began a study of the book of James. The book of James may be the earliest of the New Testament letters, written about A.D. 48. This letter, written by the brother of Jesus and one of the leaders of the church in Jerusalem, was addressed to Christians everywhere. The seven books of the New Testament from James through Jude are called the general letters because they are addressed to Christians in general and not to a special church.
James wrote this letter to teach Christians the practice of Christianity. He insists that if we have real faith, we will show it by acting like Christians. He gives practical advice on things like anger and quarreling, showing favoritism, controlling the tongue, boasting patience and prayer.
Today, we looked at the first several verses in chapter 1, specifically verse 5; If anyone should lack wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. 6 But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.
We discussed that we should seek wisdom for a variety of things;
- What to say and how to say it
- Making Decisions
- Listening and Understanding People and their Needs
- Listening to God and taking His lead
Great stuff today guys! Again, I apologize for any miscommunication. I told many of you that we were NOT having it today and neglected to tell others. Please stay tuned for next weeks JourneyMen's meeting as there may be some changes. I will let you know.
Have an awesome day!!!
Monday, June 4, 2007
A rough day!
In all honesty, I tried to live the day with James 1:2 in mind, but it wasn't easy. As I was driving home, both frustrated that I couldn't get my teller to perform to standards, hoping that I let her go with as much grace and dignity as possible, and wanting to still let my light shine to my other employees, I remembered what Glenn said on April 19th, and proceeded to thank God for the rough day too.
I hope you find encouragement in your tough days, because even the "bad" days are days that the Lord has made. We need to rejoice and be glad in them as well. Thanks again for the reminder, Glenn.
Friday, June 1, 2007
Invest in Relationships
Just wanted to throw out a couple of thoughts before the weekend. We as dad's, husbands, employees, employers, nieghbors and Christians are in the 'relationship business'. In order to establish, develop and maintain healthy relationships it takes an investment of time.
I say invest and not spend - because to invest means gain. To spend means lose. Truly, healthy relationships are important because we gain respect and this gives us influence. When we have influence, we can lead effectively. We want to successfully lead our families, our businesses and most importantly, we want to be able to lead people into relationship with the Lord. Invest yourslef, time and energy into some relationships!
Have an awesome weekend!
charles
Thursday, May 31, 2007
Let us Shine!
We left with the question of, "What am I going to do to 'Let my Light Shine' so that people may begin to know God?"
Here were some of the answers;
- Giving God credit at work - when someone thanks or praises me, I will use that as an opportunity to let them know it is God.
- Living as an example before non-believers.
- Praying and listening for opportunities to share the Word.
- Focusing on others, developing authentic relationships with them. Letting the opportunity come naturally.
- Taking the lead at home - shining in front of kids, wife.
I would love to hear more practical ideas from you guys. Have an awesome day!
co
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Shine!
INTRODUCTION:
In our early years, when life is changing and new experiences await us at every turn, purpose usually doesn't show up on our radar. We're much more concerned with who, what, and where to stop and consider the why. But at some point this question rises to the forefront, often due to discontentment with the rut of later life. So why are we here? As we look for the answer to the question of purpose, we'll look to Jesus to shed some light on the matter.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
Was there a point in your life where you wrestled with your purpose? Are you wrestling with your purpose right now?
Read Matthew 5:14-16. A city located on a hill is in a very strategic location. A light in a house is strategically located to provide the maximum amount of light. How did God place strategic people in your life who were a light to you?
1.) What is God's purpose for you where you are now? How has God strategically placed you to be a light to others?
2.) How are you shining your light for others to see?
3.) What are the consequences when we hide our light?
How can you live in such a way as to draw attention to your heavenly Father?
THINK ABOUT IT: If someone were to interview your neighbors or coworkers, what would they say about you? Do they know you are a Christian? Do they know you are a Christian by your actions? WHAT WILL YOU DO? What is something specific you can do this week that will draw the attention of those around you to your heavenly Father?
CHANGING YOUR MIND: In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Meeting Thursday, 6:30-7:30 am - The Grange
co
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Tough Week...Tough Men
I wanted to push this message out asking for your prayers for one of our fellow JourneyMEN. Randy Roach suffered a pretty serious injury at work yesterday...cutting off 2 fingers and seriously cutting another. He had surgery to re-attach one finger last night, but the next 72 hours are extremely critical. Please be praying...
Also, I wanted to update you guys on Joe Alvarez. For those who didn't know, he suffered a bad finger break and dislocation during our softball game on Monday night. Good news - it appears that no surgery required.
Lord, we ask that you help both Joe and Randy recover swiftly and completely in a short amount of time. We ask that you keep their spirit's high and allow them to heal in a manner in which they can function normally and return to work soon. God, You are the ultimate healer and we ask this in Your name...Amen
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
On the Journey...together
I wanted to take a couple moments and share with you what the objective of this blog is:
- Staying connected
- Open Dialogue
- Announcements
- Success Stories!
- Communication in between meetings
- Encouragement
- Staying Focused
- Accountability
- Review of session material
Rules of this blog:
- Keep it real
- Keep it fun
- Keep it positive and encouraging
- No judging
I would love this blog to be another legitimate pathway and opportunity for someone to come to know the Lord. When you post - keep this in mind and also understand the power of regular posts. There may be someone that NEEDS to read (hear) your thoughts and it is very conceivable that this can be a terrific vehicle to lead other men to relationship with each other and Christ.
Final note, this is going to be a great way for other men to get involved with our group who don't even live here. I have had several guys ask that they be added to my distribution list so they can keep up with our material. What a great way for us to broaden our reach! Keep this in mind as well - another reason I need you guys to post regularly.
Have an awesome day and I look forward to stimulating and encouraging conversation - for the glory of Him.
Have an awesome day!
co
Friday, May 18, 2007
Ramp it up!
Mike